Ms. Independent (The Feminist)
The “Independent woman” was first birthed during the Feminist Movement as a way for a woman to have rights and be equal to men. Feminism in the United States began with 19th-century activism in favor of women's voting rights. It gained speed and notoriety through the 20th and early 21st centuries. In general, feminism's course led to broader comprehensiveness with regard to race and social class. In 2010, Feminism in parts of the western world has gone through three waves. First-wave feminism was oriented around the station of middle- or upper-class white women and involved suffrage and political equality. Second-wave feminism attempted to further combat social and cultural inequalities. Third-wave feminism is continuing to address the financial, social and cultural inequalities and includes renewed campaigning for greater influence of women in politics and media. In reaction to political activism, feminists have also had to maintain focus on women's reproductive rights, such as the right to abortion. Feminism was created for population control, in fact, it is evil, its premise is to set the woman against the men to separate the family. See (Chapter 11) the objective of planned parenthood.
This movement lead to women exerting themselves other men, birthing the term “I don’t need a man.”“For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king.” 1 Samuel 15:23 KJV
The independent woman is taught that she doesn’t need a man, when in fact she does. They are taught to hate men and their authority, their position as the head of the household. When protection and provision are absent it all goes bad. Are men really to blame for everything. Sure as young girls if no father figure is present, a girl for having no example to look to as to what a real man is. The mothers never taught their daughters to respect men. In reality, we need men like we need a toothbrush. Yes, we do. Now before you throw me under the bus, here is why it is the natural vein of what the Most High wanted. The woman is to run the home and teach the children, while the man is the breadwinner. Many will say well that is old fashion or we are not in the stone age anymore. The truth is we were much better when women were homemakers. This is a great need at this day in time. Stay at home moms are often looked upon as lazy, unmotivated, or as dirt. So now a lot of women today feel that they could never be a homemaker, but by God's grace, you can be that woman, because it is the Most High’s will.I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan. 1Timothy 5: 14-15 KJV
Sure there are some instances when the woman must work: She is a widow, a single mother with no husband or the father of her children is nowhere around. In today’s time, most women work because they want the American dream, the Chanel handbags, high dollar cars, the big house… want to look good to the world. But in the process, the marriage falls apart and the children are overlooked. Yes, a lot of the men want their wife to help provide for the family. This has never been the will of the Most High but through sin and being taught lies many people have been lead astray from the original plan. Your husband is to rule over you and you are to obey his authority. The independent woman has no desire to be submissive just to lead. The Most High ordained the man to be the head of the household.
For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body. Ephesians 5:23 KJV
Our matriarch Sarah, submitted to her husband to the point of calling him, Lord. Sarah stood by Abraham, and he had the wealth to take care of her. You didn’t see Sarah, punching a time clock at IBM every morning. She took care of the things pertaining to the home and her children. Working from home is a full-time job with taking care or your children the future leaders of the world, homeschooling, chores of keeping her house clean, and preparing meals. So a housewife is not to be looked upon as a bad thing. It is the most honorable job you can ever have. The independent woman is a worldly perspective is not a biblical woman is honorable in the Most High’s eyes. The Most High commands every mother to love her children and her husband. To be a comfort to her husband and not a rottenness of his bones.Ask yourself, "Where are your children and what are they doing?"